Men are creatures of habit and it has been truly said that at heart every man is a bachelor. Often they are incapable of deciding their priorities, especially regarding their romantic lives. No matter how intelligent they are at solving problems in the outside world the initiative in relationships has to be taken by women on a number of occasions. There are various ways and means by which this can be done. There are various for you to make him like you. If you want to make sure that your relationship lasts for a long time then read on.
Being available for him when he needs you is an efficient and caring way of making him like you more. Love and care in a relationship are very important. However, the timing of making your care and love obvious and visible is very important. The little intricacies and nuances of a relationship are the factors that either make it or break it. When your partner is moody and too engrossed in his professional life then make sure that you do not interfere too much. This does not mean that you should become distant.
This simply implies that you do not overdo. In such a scenario where his professional commitments seem to be bothering him, you should show the right amount of care and love. Showing too much warmth and affection at such times can be a negative influence upon your relationship and might even drive him away from you. The optimum balance in behavior is very important in relationships. You show too little emotion or affection and he might feel unwanted. You show too much love and affection and he might get too bored too soon. Both of these scenarios should be avoided.
Flirting is essential for the progress and growth of every relationship. Keep things interesting. Learn to surprise your man with little gifts and surprise visits. Surprise dinners and dates are appreciated by men as much as they are by women. Make sure that your man, the outwardly unemotional man, knows and realizes your true worth. These little surprises and gifts will mean the world to him. He might not show his gratitude but these will go a long way in ensuring that your relationship goes from strength to strength.
You must also ensure that he does not take you for granted. Too much warmth, love and affection from your side might make him think that you would be there for him no matter what. This is a good thing and he should be able to trust you and rely on you. But men also take to tend things for granted and hence undervalue the importance and significance of their partners. Make sure that this does not happen. Hence balance is of extreme significance.
There are other things that you must take care of. Stay in touch with your innermost feelings and desires. Make sure that the man you are doing so much for is actually worth such attention and care and love.